The True Happiness

There are games playing, there are gambling.  Playing chess, bets will be there, football, basket ball, table tennis and many others, bets have to be there.  There is a saying, no bets, no motivations; nobody will play a game with you.

Playing games is to make money? Playing games is not for exercises?  Playing games is not for refreshing, relaxing, taking away pressure and be happy? What do you thing? Quoting my usual sentence again, as far as I am concerned, refreshing, relaxing, taking away pressure and be happy, it is what I care and need.

Playing the traditional Chinese mahjong, I always insisted that the wining bets be not become a personal wins and owned. It is either deposit it as a wining pool or use it after games for dinner or super. (There is a story of this subject, please refer to my other blog of the Malaysian Stories of daily life) Others may not agree to my point of views or feel as what I feel, but one thing I am sure.  I will not feel happy if the Mahjong becomes a gambling game.

Human are always greedy and never satisfy.  This is not a bad nature of human at all; it is such a nature contributed to the world we are having now and there will be more advance in future.  It is also such a nature created many sad stories of mankind. No doubt, when there is won bets in our pockets, we feel happy but then it is a true happiness that we were getting? As I was saying, as far as I am concerned, I would have a feel of having a few dollars more, that’s all, nothing more nothing less. However, there would be another sad feeling to replace as I would feel sorry for the one who had loosed.  So long as they are concerned, loosing is nothing as they could have afforded it.  As far as I am concerned, I get something out from nothing. There is nothing worth to feel happy about.

Playing a game and have a won, wining could be either one out from two. Lady luck, truly I do feel happy about it, won out from skill playing, the happiness will be the highest form of enjoying. Both ways of gaining the happiness, it is the true happiness so far it is not involved bets went into individual pockets.  Those games we play and it involve physical exercise.  We may feel tired after the games, but then the next morning when we wake up, we will feel great, physically and mentally.

Achievements always make me feel happy, a kind of happiness couple of feeling proud.  Achievements need not to be an outstanding event.  Whenever there is a problem, minor or major. The moment I have solved the problem with my own efforts, the kind of happiness that I was enjoying, it is no words in the world could be used to describe it, furthermore, it is not only one day of enjoying, and it is a few days of enjoying.

Helping, it is another way of getting true happiness, it indicate that we could of use to the society. We are not living in such a way to become a burden and headache to others. Helping could be anything, guide someone across the road, allowing the old and the handicap to take our seats. There are other ways of helping and involve a larger and wider scope, the establishment of charity foundations.  Helping by any ways, minor or major, it is a truly true happiness that we are getting.

Gaining happiness yet it does not make others feel unhappy and not to suffer anything.  This is what I said the true happiness. There are many ways; it is definitely many other ways to gain the true happiness that right at this moment I have not thought of.

Good luck and please do get your entitled share of true happiness out from this world.  No one has a right to take away from you, no matter under whatsoever circumstances.

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