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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

The Suspicions

When I was teenager, schooling time, my father used to scold something for nothing.  He scolded me for the wrong doings not being done or apparently going to do. He scolded me that I was going to do tomorrow or the something next that after I was going to do.  He claimed that he could see the future. He was not claimed, it was based on superstition. He said that it was because he could predict the next moves of human nature. He was quite right; it was at least a couple of times out from ten he was right about me, about the things that I have done or going to do. 
My mother used to scold him or rather argued with him that he was highly suspicious.  It was because of his suspicious mind and attitude. It created many accusations and caused hardship for her children.
Grasshopper Virtual Phone SystemMy mother would insist my father was always suspecting other had done something or going to do something. My father would insist he was based on his reliable assumption that something had done or going to be done.
The criterion over here, we are able to tell or know things that others have done and we were not a party to it.  It is to say we have some mysterious power or we are talented genius.  Or else, we are having a highly suspicious nature.
NEW Havahart DeFence Rabbit Repellent - Effective & Organic!My father was having a small grocery shop.  I was helping him to run the shop when I was teenager.  He was not only scolding me for thing that I had done or going to do, he scolded me for not able to do the selling.  He scolded me for not able to know the next moves of others. All those scolding brought me up and at one point of times; my mother accused me of being a highly suspicious nature like my father. 
WE are able to suspect something amiss; we are able to analyze, bisect pieces and get the truth, we dare to accept the analysis.  We will not be betrayed by others. We trust without suspicious, we trust without analysis, we trust and based on others suspicions and analysis.  We may failed and likely to be failed.
A hunch wills usually creating suspicious and it may lead to predictions and action being so taken that something unwanted is prevented or something being done towards our benefits.
Under certain circumstances, something unusual has occurred, it creates suspicious and all of us agreed to it.  It is fine, the episode ended.  However, something has occurred in the normal way, it creates suspicion for us, others find them, they are normal. The spotlight falls on us.
We are right about the suspicion out from the normal occurrence, we shall be regarded by them; we have the super power or supernatural power.  However, we are wrong about the suspicion, we are being too suspicious minded and maybe we are crazy guy. We could be right about the suspicion yet we are not supernatural.  It is the pieces we picked up from our past experiences.  We are able to keep on analyzing, the things around us that there are happening in our daily life.  These small pieces of happening shall be locked deep inside our mind.  These pieces will be able to pop up from our deepest mind whenever we needed them and they will indicate to us by way of hunches.
It is possible, suspicious out from jealousy.  As far as I am concerned, suspicion out from this way, it is not healthy, psychological not healthy.  We are successful, we are better off than others by a little; we have a few dollars more, we may have a little bit more knowledge than others that we have hard earned.  Others started to suspect, we are using the wrong ways of getting it.  We are illegally to get what we wanted.  I would say, this is the type of suspicion which is highly dangerous.  It may lead to psychologically illness.
It is possible, suspicious out from curiosity.  We have found something very unusual, we are willing to spend more time and afford to find out, to get more information from the internet, books, and newspapers and ask around.  We get all the information and spend more time to analyze it and locked deep inside our mind for future use. Congratulations, we have the right way of getting good use of being suspicious out from nothing as long as it is the concerned of others, “out from nothing”.   As for use, we are one step forward to have a better life.

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Thursday, March 24, 2011

The Power Struggle

Power means, to control, we have the power; we are able to controlling others. Why must we have the power? They said they are born leader, they have the capability of being as the leaders, so they are able to do the controlling. By this way, by these thoughts, can we term them as they are power crazy? They said they have power which in turn makes them to have more money.  It is to say, having power; it is as good as having money. Having money, it is to say, having power, however does it means, having happiness? Having no fears of losing power? Having nightmares of not able to firmly grid the power?

Can we say, power was gained by authorization? Someone said “I hereby give you the authority and from now on use it” By the authorization, are we able to do anything that we wanted to do? As far as I am concerned, we may but not completely successful. We need to earn it, we need to earn the respects from others in order to discharge our duties associated with the power being given. By this way jobs in our hand, we shall carried out beautifully.

Instilment of fears into others to get the jobs done, it is this way created lots of sad stories. So far as office jobs are concerned, it is such a way most commonly done.  I must say any management of company who are practicing this method of controlling.  Either one of two things will happen; the company is constantly incurring losses. At the end of the not far away of the day, they will close shop for good.  Secondly, should there be any profits shown, it is, I believe it is not maximized.

Power struggle among the employees, it is very common to all organizations, public or private. Power Struggle is also prevailing among the children of the rich families.  There are power struggle in schools, universities and in groups, it is power struggling so long there are more than two persons. 

Is power struggle a hindrance to socially development and nation building? I would say that it is not. On the contrary, it is the power struggle gave birth, the modern society we are in now, and at least, it is my point of views.  However power struggle must be conducted without tricks, cheats, traps, frames and any others except by way of true talents and true popularity.

Power struggle could be clean out from persons who have the nature of having no desires, no eagerness to have something; no strong urge of getting something except the satisfaction of being something is done or achieved.

There is no end of power struggling, history is repeating on and on, good leaders come and good leaders gone.  There are many political systems, each of it, trying to get the best and good people to shoulders the duties of bringing betterment for the ordinary folks to live a life. So far but not so good, no one system is being perfected.

There is really nothing at all to have a system for a clean power struggle? It is really no formulae, no guiding, no standard rules to help us to have a clean power struggle? It seems it is the way has to be, we are hand tied and we can only leave it to the nature course of actions. Power struggle by its own ways, continuing to have its place, giving us the choices and it is our duties to see, to judge and to choose.  Wrong choices, we are suffered, good choice, we are better off.  

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Friday, March 18, 2011

The True Happiness

There are games playing, there are gambling.  Playing chess, bets will be there, football, basket ball, table tennis and many others, bets have to be there.  There is a saying, no bets, no motivations; nobody will play a game with you.

Playing games is to make money? Playing games is not for exercises?  Playing games is not for refreshing, relaxing, taking away pressure and be happy? What do you thing? Quoting my usual sentence again, as far as I am concerned, refreshing, relaxing, taking away pressure and be happy, it is what I care and need.
Playing the traditional Chinese mahjong, I always insisted that the wining bets be not become a personal wins and owned. It is either deposit it as a wining pool or use it after games for dinner or super. (There is a story of this subject, please refer to my other blog of the Malaysian Stories of daily life) Others may not agree to my point of views or feel as what I feel, but one thing I am sure.  I will not feel happy if the Mahjong becomes a gambling game.
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Playing a game and have a won, wining could be either one out from two. Lady luck, truly I do feel happy about it, won out from skill playing, the happiness will be the highest form of enjoying. Both ways of gaining the happiness, it is the true happiness so far it is not involved bets went into individual pockets.  Those games we play and it involve physical exercise.  We may feel tired after the games, but then the next morning when we wake up, we will feel great, physically and mentally.
Achievements always make me feel happy, a kind of happiness couple of feeling proud.  Achievements need not to be an outstanding event.  Whenever there is a problem, minor or major. The moment I have solved the problem with my own efforts, the kind of happiness that I was enjoying, it is no words in the world could be used to describe it, furthermore, it is not only one day of enjoying, and it is a few days of enjoying.
Helping, it is another way of getting true happiness, it indicate that we could of use to the society. We are not living in such a way to become a burden and headache to others. Helping could be anything, guide someone across the road, allowing the old and the handicap to take our seats. There are other ways of helping and involve a larger and wider scope, the establishment of charity foundations.  Helping by any ways, minor or major, it is a truly true happiness that we are getting.
Gaining happiness yet it does not make others feel unhappy and not to suffer anything.  This is what I said the true happiness. There are many ways; it is definitely many other ways to gain the true happiness that right at this moment I have not thought of.
Good luck and please do get your entitled share of true happiness out from this world.  No one has a right to take away from you, no matter under whatsoever circumstances.
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Saturday, March 12, 2011

The Master or the Slave of Money

 I used to tell most of my friends “Money is important but happiness is on top of all” We are able to use money the right way, we are able to get the best benefits out from it, or else money use us and money became devil and drive us to the point of crazy.
Money and money worth, money just only in paper form with a law attached to it that it becomes a legal instrument for doing purchases.
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We use money to buy things, the thing that we bought the money worth, we are happy and proud, that is something we use our sweat and capability to own it. We are truly and happily enjoying the fruits of our success. We are a lord of money.  Whereas, those belongings are gained by illegal ways, they are slaves; slaves of the devils who had control them. They thought they are happy and satisfied with the unlawful belongings; but unknowingly that within their deepest heart and subconsciously they are not truly felt the same way as they have apparently felt so. Are they felt as what I said? I don’t know, but at least I will feel that way.
Taking credits for the jobs being done by others, so long as I am concern I am not feeling happy.  Taking credits from others, resulting from getting high pay and promotion.  I am not feeling proud for the promotion and the money associate with it, it becomes paper money.
It is a temptation not to disclose the credits being done by others, should it be happened mistakenly. Under such a situation, as for others I don’t know, as for me I will disclose them whenever there are chances to do it. Somehow or rather, I must have a firm mind to disclose them. Or else, I will always feel that I am the slave of money and making me sleepless night most of the nights.
Maximization of profit, it is a term use by business community.  It is to say to make the best use of our mother earth resources; it is also to say to make the best of human resources.  Making use of the best of human talents, it is rightly to reward human talents appropriately and accordingly.  Does it the case? Somehow I do not feel that way.
Truly Mother earth is being used; it is used until in such a way that mother earth gets angry, she has shown her colors.  Storm and floods, earth quakes and volcano explosion, this is the way mother earth say “Stop being as slave of money, be a master of money, making the best and the appropriate use of my resources” I do hear what mother earth said and I added “Please do not spoil it for just a few dollars more”
Robbing here and there, whose fault? Cheating there and here, god’s fault? Stealing and break in days and nights, the society faults? Folks need to live a life, folks need a good education but folks do not have such an opportunity. Who’s faulty? The faults of politician, the economist, the financial planners or yours or mine, or is it that we have not give them the chances.  I must say it is someone who has the power of controlling, the DEVIL of money. So we blame the money, no definitely not,  it is, we are the ones who are willingly wanted to be SLAVE of money.
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Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The True Love

Every one of us needed love for flourish, feel secure and happy.  Love, they said that there are many categories of love, motherly love, fatherly love, sisters and brotherly love, friendship love and others.
The neighbor, the mother, on and off, I heard and saw, scolding their children for not doing homework, shouting for making mistakes.
Is it a motherly love? I would say “Yes, all parents are having true parents love for their children, especially the mother, the love given is unconditional”
The other neighbor, both the mother and father needed to go out for a while. Apparently, it was not convenient to carry their younger son of 3 years to go along, they asked their eldest daughter to look after. The son cried loudly and miserably
I believe, it is a true love. The true love given for the parents, a three years old child, and the love that being given to the parents, it is undoubtedly a born true love.
Twelve months in a year, one of the day, it is New Year. Every year, New Year time, there are leaders, political leaders or otherwise, they would go over for giving out goodies to the old and the poor. Thereafter, news would always spread every corner, by ways of electronic news and paper news.
Is it a true love from the leaders, political leaders or otherwise? No comments, as far as I am concerned.  On other hand, what can I say? I am not them, but I hope, and do sincerely hope, it is a true leader love. It is not because of trying to gain popularity.
It applied to the natural disastrous events, the earth quake, the storm and flood and a number of others. Leaders, political leaders or otherwise, they would be the firsts to go over to the scene to show that they did cared. 
Unfortunately it was once, a natural disastrous of bad storm and flooded, killing at least more than 500 folks of the minority communality of a nation.  The Leaders, political leaders or otherwise was not there even after a few days. The incidence gave me a feeling of “Is there a true leader love?”
Whenever we are torching on the subject of true love, we are always relating it to the Lovers’ Love. Is there a true love between a pair of lover? How do we differentiate it and indentify the true love. Does it mean? Whenever we are willing to give in, money or sex, it means, it is a true love.  May be giving out money, it is because; we are expecting something in returns. Giving sex, it is only we are enjoying too.
Does it mean? There is an eager urge to be together or to see each other.  It is true love. May be we are too lonely and needed companionship with just any one who could share our thoughts and feelings.
Does it mean? We have feelings towards someone, the feelings of likings that we are unable to explain. Feelings of easiness, able to get along, joys of being together, it is always adhering to the jokes. May be it is the other partners, the best of acting to gain the love for some purposes. The love given under such a situation, I would considered, it is a love being given for the pretending. It is not a true love.
A true love must have a reciprocal, we are given to someone, and someone must give us back. One sided love, it is not a true love. One sided love and separated, the sadness will disappear at no time, a click of fingertip only.
How are we going to know the other partners’ feelings? The feeling of true love or it is only the pretending? There is absolutely none, no guarantee and no such things as firm promises.  The facts will surface in due course, as time pass by, pieces of truth will come by, little by little, taking the pieces together.  True love or no true love, no matter whose pretending talents, so high that it could be,  no one is able to escape not to show the truth.
 Will it be the case? So far as I am concerned, it is the case and I was and I will be always not to give in and be patience to wait, be patience to feel, be patience to see, until I am satisfied.
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