The situation warranted III

It was not really bad luck always a double! It is triple or doubles double; at least it applies to me. My eyes need eyes specialist and my teeth need specialist care.  So far I was and I am best taking care of by the public hospital eyes specialist. The dentist, the public dental clinic, is they caring the aged and un-affordable? I am wondering? The first I had encounter, it is the public university dental specialist of public Hospital. The second, it is the dental clinic of public clinic.

My upper teeth, I have seven teeth.  My lower teeth five teeth with one false tooth attached to the shaking nature tooth.  I was told three of the nature teeth and the false tooth needed to take off to give way for full detachable full sets of false teeth.  The cost is manageable. The planting of false teeth, it was costing at RM 1000.00 by the public university dental specialist, naturally I could not afford and the dental student who was treating me, she was caring and she fought for my behalf to waive the RM1000.00 but at no avail. I was asked by the Lecturer or professor or someone who was the senior not to go back the public university dental specialist again. 

Is it really caring being the first priority in the medicine community? Or, medicine is for the rich and young? May be and I am wondering?  Does the young needed to have denture?  Oh! Yes, it is not medicine, it is dental, be it aged and not well off, you need not to have teeth to enjoy food, and after all you are going to “Goal” or “KO”!!  May be this is their doctrine of situation warranted, who knows I don’t know. May be this is not happening in the country I am living, may be other countries are practicing as well. After all it is the doctrine of situation warranted alien to the aged and un-affordable!

The dental clinic of public clinic, there is signboard displaced at the noticeable place and in such a way no one is able to miss them.   It is clearly stated all charges, the full denture and partial, the charges are really indicating the true caring for not only aged and they are for general public. A number ticket machine attached with clear massages, the aged and handicap are first priority for the dentist to attend to, it is so touching, and I was nearly tears drop. It looks like I have stepping into a dental clinic with whole heart and true caring.

I was so happy I got what I wanted the first visit in Mar 2008, thereafter followed up by appointments for the partial denture fixing.  There were a few of my lower teeth were shaking, I was advice to pull them off before for the full removable denture.  My argument was, they were still serving for the purpose of biting chicken bones and grinding groundnuts, many hard shells nuts and many more of the harder nature of foods.  The removable denture would not do so. I would happily to allow all my loosing teeth to pull away if they could provide the planting of denture but they were not providing such services.

The female dentist was so caring and understanding, giving me the partial lower removable denture. Thereafter a few months,  one of my shaking teeth gone and she repaired my partial removable denture by adding one tooth.  The repairing only required one working day, it is to say, and the next day I have my repaired denture back to my mouth. Thereafter another tooth was gone and repaired and another was gone and repaired.

Now, today 18 December 2011 I am still having three shaking teeth. And one good tooth of my lower teeth serving their purpose for the biting, cutting and grinding all the hard shells and harder food and I am enjoying.  Should there be pull off, I won’t be able to enjoy since 2008 and many more years ahead. My loosen teeth; they are definitely not comparable to my good teeth.  I do believe they are not comparable to any planted teeth either but it is proven they are better than my removable dentures.

I wonder, why the dentists of the dental clinic of public clinic refused to allow me to have my full set of removable denture fixed before all my loosen teeth to be taken off? Is it the doctrine of situation warranted suggests that all the loosen teeth must be taken off? Or, is it the rule of the book indicated? Or is it some other agenda required them to do so? It does give me some discomfort or slight pain at times due to the attack of the teeth born bacteria or virus but then it is only one or two days and back to normal and enjoy my favorite foods for the next few weeks.  It is repeating and repeating but I am enjoying!!  Don’t they know once they are taken off, it is gone forever?

Don’t they know, it is not much of the years ahead we are having?  Don’t they know when we are aged, there are not many things we can afford to enjoy especially we are not well off? Furthermore there are not many good and tasty foods left for us as many aged sickness prohibited many tasty food.  Yet these dentists of the dental clinic of public clinic, they are having such a heart of taking away the remaining few of tasty foods from us.

I was happy and thankful to the first dentist gave me the partial lower denture fixed but when my loosen teeth came off one by one, lower or upper.  Beginning of this year, 2011 most of my loosen teeth are gone except there are still three of them on my lower teeth plus one good tooth at the far end alone serving no biting purpose. All my upper teeth are good but they are only seven remaining.

I do believe I needed a full set of denture fixed, by then a much more better bites, cut and grinding and much more foods enjoyment I could have. However, my dreams are taken away by their doctrine of situation warranted:-

You get aged you be gone, it is not their business for you to enjoy. Loosen teeth stay; denture is not there for you. Caring for the aged society, it is only slogan. Caring only good for those, young and affordable!

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The situation warranted II

The one nice day I was attacked by spiral stenosis, it was sometime in latter months of the year 2005. It was not possible for me to go for private clinics or worst still the private specialist or hospital as my business was not well performed but only surviving. It was not possible for me to go for public hospital orthopedic specialist without a reference letter from the public clinics.

It was under doctrine of situation warranted of their own, I was not given any later of reference. I was given only pain killer. The pain killer pills of the quality I was given, I was told to consume when necessary.  They are capable of damaging my other internal organs. Finally I was given letter of reference at the beginning of year 2006. It was submitted to the public hospital orthopedic specialist and I was getting an appointment on 3 of April 2006.

It was under whose doctrine of situation warranted, I wonder? Does it mean aged is entitled for electric shocking pain suffering? Or does it mean aged and less well off only suffer? Does it really mean there is doctrine of situation warranted for aged and not well off needed to have sufferings? Oh! I am really wondering?

It is a saying, bad luck always a double. It was not enough to suffer the spiral stenosis, the electric shocking pain. It was follow by another attack, I was suffering gastro disorder and I am still suffering and under treatment.  I was given a big name of medical term that I cannot remember.  It was the result of my first gastro scope.  They confirmed I had stomach ulcers and duodenum illness that could develop into cancer. 

Again I needed letter of reference from the public clinic for the appointment of the public hospital gastro specialist. I was complaining to the public clinic of my constantly stomach upset for the last few years and the complaints was made known in beginning of the year 2006.  Complaints also included passing motions with black color discharges and pain in upper abdomen.

Once again, the doctrine of situation warranted was not applied to the well being of me.  Do I really so bad in my luck that I do not have the privileges of being aged and be helped? However this time it was different I have met an Angel Female doctor who was treating my spiral stenosis.  She took heed of my complaints and disregarded others by issued letter of reference even she was not supposed to do so and possibly facing discipline action by the authority of the public hospital.  She was the only one who really took the doctrine of situation warranted by heart so long in my case and it was. She is an orthopedic specialist not a general practice.

Assisted by the Angel, my appointment with the gastro specialist was fixed on 08 June 2006. It was confirmed prima facie I had a gastro case and the first gastro scope was fixed on that day for 12 July 2006.  The scope confirmed I had stomach ulcers and duodenum illness that could develop into cancer.  Treatment I was received by drugs taking. The first dose course of one month medicine from 08 June 2006 to 12 July 2006, the medicine failed as the scope shown the seriousness of the gastro disorders. The second dose course, the medicine changed to Ranitidine tablets and I was told the Ranitidine tablets was stronger than the first doze course.

The second scope done on 01 Nov 2006, it was having no improvement and medicine changed again and I was told it was the strongest. It was Prazole group.  The third scope, it was done on 17 Jan 2007, no improvement and taking the Prazole group of different brand and manufacturers. The forth scope on 06 May 2008, no improvement and gas in stomach was visible, Prazole medicine continuing. The fifth scope was done on 05 Jan 2010, improvement was concluded and I was told no ulcers were visible but my complaints persistent especially early in the morning, continuing taking Prazole tablets.

Routine gastro appointments in between scopes, it was somewhere after the fifth scope, memory not very well as it did not reflected in my record (my appointment cards details).  I was given a change of medicine from Prazole to Ranitidine tablets for three months as my fifth scope was done on 05 Jan 2010, it indicated improvement with no ulcers visible. Thereafter the sixth scope was done on 16 March 2011. The ulcers coming back and I was asked why it could happen as it was no ulcers visible in the fifth scope.  The only reason I could provide, it was the change of medicine and I was not taking heed of my complaints. The Prazole was given again. 

The doctrine of situation warranted was not in favor for me again when I was attaining my routine appointment of the gastro specialist right after my sixth scope in 16 March 2011.  I was told by the specialist on that appointment that I need not to have any treatment further and ready for discharge. It confused me by the facts, I was scope for no ulcers visible and medicine changed, thereafter scoped again and ulcers visible and yet I was told I was ready for discharge. Why such a doctrine of situation warranted being applied to me all the time? Is it my aged life truly does not have any value at all? Why must I facing such a doctrine of situation warranted? Oh!  What could I do? I have nothing to say but utter the words of I am truly wondering?

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The situation warranted I

The doctrine of situation warranted, it is to say, decision is made at the place based on the situation of the time and the conditions at that time.  It needs not to follow the rules and by the book, so long as the conditions at that time is warranted. However care is needed for the rights of living things and life forms.

Being a child, the feelings, the way of thinking and the ways of response, I must say, it is totally forgotten.  Being teenager, it was joyful, it was wonderful and it was truly beautiful. It was the feelings of some teenagers who had a wonderful family. It did not mater the family was rich or poor.  It is the value of family love, love from parents, love from brothers and sisters and love from immediate relatives, uncles and aunts. There are poor teenagers, who have no feelings, feelings of being loved and cared, they unluckily have irresponsible parents or guardians, though it does not have official statistic but I do believe the ration is minimum, I am truly hoping so!

Being youthful, who cares the world is trembling down; the sun is shatter into pieces. I like it I take it, junk food or good food, sex, no problems, sexual diseases or no diseases.  Enjoyment is my life, so long it does not hurting others.  There are others, own self is on top of all.  Hurting or no hurting, it is none of their concern, luckily this group of youths, it is minimum in our society. I am truly hoping so!

Being middle age, passing through half of the human life, they have picked up, all feelings, bad or good, the experiences, intentionally or uncalled for along their way of their life.  They are still manageable; they are still having the tip top health condition.  They are capable of doing as what they are pleased to do.  It is young enough to feel the no pinch of body decaying.

Aged, it is the subject; it is something, the child, the teenager, the youth and the middle-aged needed to imagine. What will it become when they are stepping into it?  Allow me to give you some aspects of it.

Aspect number one, it is the only one will make you feel like to stop growing, if you can! It is the situation warranted aspect or the doctrine of situation warranted being overruled. It is a true story of me for the past few years.  It is the aspect number one applying all the time. Aspect number two, three or four and so on, they keep on asking you to refer to aspect number one.

I was fifty seven turn fifty eight, happy go lucky, my small business though it was not perform well but surviving.  Having a capable wife in assisting me in the business, she gave me a wonderful daughter who always scored full marks of her studies, gaining many scholarships and prizes which lessen my financial commitment. 

It was one nice day; I was attacked by spiral stenosis.  I have suffered tremendous pain; it was like an electric shock right from my buttock down to my leg.  I had no way to withstand the shocking pain but to squat down or sit down. It was just a beginning of my life out from my health and receiving treatments from others.

The business is naturally not able to sustain its normal operation but scaled down for home operation of clothing alteration by my wife.  All machineries were sold except one or two for alteration. Stocks are partly sold and the rest kept at home as they are considered as no marketable value. Throwing is truly a waste.  It is something like, you like it, it cost you a fortune otherwise they are worthless not even a cent. Debts owed to others, they are fully paid or else I will be sued.  Debts owed to me, no way to collect, I can’t afford the legal entangle. I have to use wisely my savings for the unknown in times to come.

Seeking financial assistance from the so called social insurance by claiming under non-performing due to key man was suffered electric shocking pain and unable to walk for more 30 minutes or at times less than 10 minutes. Normal mail Letter of claims sent, it was mo response, registered letter of claim sent but the mail was sent and dropped into the ocean. I was lucky, after three years over of drugs treatment without surgical operation; improvement is achieved but not fully recovered.

My situation of suffer pain of electric shock and unable to conduct business, it was to do marketing; I needed to walk quite a distance. It was to do job by long hours of standing in the workshop to do the cutting. It was because of the incapability, I had to scale down the operation by only doing the alteration at home by my wife. As for me, I could only do some household jobs and blogging.  Now that I have some improvement, assisting my wife to do the edging and simple sewing, I could do it only a few minutes and rest for a while or else the electric shock of pain is coming back.

Does it mean it was the situation warranted that I was not entitled to receive the benefits of social insurance? I wonder what the situations at that time were. I was not entitled of such a claim until now? I am sixty five years old, I am truly aged now.  Still no reply no answers, being aged; it is the treatment we are receiving?  I am truly wondering? Am I complaining? No I am not, it is my plights, it is my feelings these few days and they are stuck in my brain and echoing all the time.  Digging them out to the open, it wills definitely lessening the pressure in my skull.

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The Games and Hobbies

It is a routine, early in the morning, jogging in the park with my wife.  The day is just getting started, the sun light showing a little to indicate, it is a new daybreak of today as the day before and the days will be of many to come.  We have chosen a seat provided by the park, a seat with a well designed hut, we help ourselves be seated, and sipping coffee we have carried, wiping away sweats by towel and resting we are for a while before to continue the routine jogging.

There are other joggers around, having a temporary rest to ease the muscles of both legs. Jogger I “I was unable to sleep when I woke up at five Am.  I was just didn’t know what to do, TV, Radio or DVD, none I have interested as I am tired of all. Day in day out same old movies and songs or music” Jogger II “So what happen and how did you kill off those boring times?” It looks like the jogger II was having the same situation of waking early in the morning before daybreak and Mr. Sleep refused to take him back.

I was having the same old experience on and off in the middle of the night.  It was not only once, it was many and countless, and it was in my childhood, “youthhood”, “younghood” and middle age hood.

During my teenage after school time, I was needed to help my father to take care of the grocery shop.  The shop was opened early morning at 7.00am to 10.00pm daily, 365 and ¼ day a year. The business was too good to be true and most of the time I was having nothing to do.

It was bored and bored and I thought I was unable to grow older as I would be killed by the Mr. Bored before I get old.  It was all these experiences, training myself to get to learn and to like and to hook on games, all games any games that suitable for aged group.  It is true, I prepare myself during teenage for the aged.

Jogger I and Jogger II went off and I was not able to get to know the answer of killing Mr. Bored.  Jogger III and jogger IV joined in to our usual rest hut.  I have another conversation or small talk to add to my storage bank of one of the portion of my memory brain.

Jogger III started “our neighbor’s neighbor, the one on my right, her remote relatives’ remote relative, the one we all known as Mrs. Broadcaster. Her neighbor’s mother, living alone in the house, she has sons and daughters” Jogger IV “Yes, yes I know her, it is so heard that the sons, some are having good jobs and either working overseas or other states and daughters are married off  with rich husbands.” Jogger III “Do you know what happened to them? According to Mrs. Broadcaster, there were home to accompany her for a few days one after another for the first few years.  Thereafter they just back to visit her for a few minutes and for the couple of years, no one came to pay her a visit and no financial support as well!!”

Jogger IV “yes, yes I heard, I heard and the poor old lady needed quite often to have three meals support from the neighbors!” Jogger III “According to Mrs. Broadcaster, There was once she needed to send her to the hospital middle of the night because she was suffer a high fever” Jogger IV “yes, yes there was also one incident, the poor old lady fell and suffered fractured and needed her neighbor to call ambulance to picked her up for hospitalized a few days”

Passing by jogger stopped and joined “So what happened to her now?” Jogger III “What do you mean by what happen o her now?” Passing by jogger “I mean everything, her daily meals and who is taking care of her?”  Jogger III “I don’t know, no hear from Mrs. Broadcaster”

Thereafter no more small talks and silence was covered at this part of the park; we moved and continued our daily jogging.  Having stories to add to our memory bank, it is not necessary to have a seat at a hut or any resting place.  While we are jogging along the jogging lane stories could be heard over here and there, at times or all the time.

It is said, so and so, who and who, hooked to the hobbies of gambling, losing all cash in hand and in the bank.  Selling business and properties and I said “they are ok; they are at least not selling their wives and their children or their parents, brothers and sisters!!”  It is said so and so, who and who hooked to the hobbies of drugs taking, beating wife or no wife but parents for fund to get drugs. Stealing and house break in are their expertise, they said, it is enjoying.  You dares not they dare, you scare they don’t, after all happy and happy go lucky, once get caught, free meals and have a place to stay!!

It is so said and so reported,  one beautiful and young student, in her sweat seventeen, parents are multi-billionaire, get her car and anything she needs, best of all, gave her great body and she is so enjoyed of her own body and richness of parents.  She hooked to the hobbies of getting best enjoyment that money can’t buy, having sex of different males, testing young, testing old and testing other different races.  It is I said and I wonder, will she really feel proud of such and experiences by the time she is aged and have children of her own?

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Enhanced Value of Property

A house is bought, no matter it is old or new, renovation is on the way. No matter how best the developers is claimed that everything is provided and you need only move in yourself and your loved ones, renovation is still needed. Renovations become the norm of and a must of before move in and or stay in and or live in a house that newly bought.

Such a norm or a must, it is good for the renovation industries which in turn improving our economy. It is best and it has to encourage and to keep on such a tradition.  It is even better to spread around, renovation is a way to have no evil spirit stay put in the house especially those who bought used houses. It is in such a way to escape attacks from anyone who criticizes renovate for nothing just for the sake of renovation, it is just for sake of showing off one’s wealth,  it is just for the sake of telling the whole wide world of being a genius in design.

Enhancing value housing property, it is one of two.  It is the property itself and the location or the surrounding environment. May be it has the third, the unexplained phenomenon for value added or for value minus.

A parcel of land, lying and it is waiting for development, a developer eyeing the land and develop it.  The process of converting the entire empty land into nice and friendly neighborhoods, a township or a dream home for many with self contain of an ordinary happy family requirements. There are many efforts from many professionals, the architects, the interior designers, the township planers and these are just only a few there are many more other professionals and their efforts.

The townships/housing estates have their spirits and their characters, each and every design, it has its purpose, each and every poles, drains, roofs, walls and many others, it’s truly has its meanings and the ways it has to be. Each and every painting on the wall, the roof and its color, it has its duty to express its blossom and its uniqueness of its nature to compliment completely of its mother design – the construction, the house, the building.

What the township/housing estate are going to be the moment they are handover to the new owners.  It is naturally depend entirely on the new owners.  The renovations will definitely be carried out by each and every new owner. 

The renovation compliments the original spirits and characters. It is fine and bravo, the enhancement of property value is very near in the future.  In some cases, it is triple the value of the developer price.  In other instances, it may have other factors, the assistance of gods, the good fortune of gods or goodness, or it is just only purely a “Lady Luck”, the enhancement of property value went up as high as ten or twenty times of the developer price.

The renovation goes against the original spirits and characters, there are cases, it is not as simple as going against it, and it is actually destroying the original spirits and characters.  They renovate it and they thought it is their master piece of work.  In the eyes of others, a highly and nicely built neighborhood become a village, it is not a modern village.  It is an Ad century village!  It is worst still, A before stone age village. Needless to say, a negative-enhanced property, a minus-developer price of neighborhood.

There are cases, renovation compliments the original spirits and characters, neighborhood well maintain in senses of keeping up the images of property. However, neighborhood is destroyed by the so-called the well “behave residents” It is true, their house is nice, their furniture is super, their gears are branded and whatever they owned are the best of the best.  Their dogs are rare species but they shit everywhere except their own compounds, they pees cars wheels of others except their own.

These “well behave” residents, it is not enough for them to own the compound of their own inside their fenced and railings.  They claim that they are allowed to use any compound; even it is doorways of houses of others.  They parked their cars in front of houses of others; they block the doorways until the owners unable to drive their cars out from their own houses. They argue they have the right to park there as it is the land of the government.  It is everyone parking space and on the first come first serve basis.  They thought they are genius and they know the law best. It is possible they are genius as they are only blind one part of their brain that it is possibly another law, it is an offence to block cars of others.

Enhancing value of property, it is not only one factor, it is many, there are many methods, many ways and luck could be the sole reasons at times.  It is something that each of us wishes to get it especially spends a little and gets it by more than ten folds of the bought price.

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Friendship and Gifts

I met an old friend the other day, we had a small talk a couple of minutes while I was waiting for my wife, and she was getting some daily supplies from the wet market.  He posed a question to me “What is a friend for and why do we need friends” It was a simple question but it is not a simple answer could cover all definitions of the question. I could only answered it by way of “small talk answer”

Assuming there are two outlets, selling the identical entertainment products, the DVD and others. Prices are the same, sale personals are super, and environment is indifferent to each other. The decision to make to choose which outlet of getting the supplies, the decision are anybody guesses.  The decision is becoming simple; it is the one which is belonging to my friend or one of the sale personals is my friend. My long lost friend was very satisfied with this answer. Will others be satisfied?

There is a statement, at home we depend on our parents, and out there from home we need friends for any eventuality.  Is there any truth?

It was once a time, around the eastern block of our mother earth, popular events, it was the wedding dinners.  It was highly common, there were weddings, there were wedding dinner’s invitations, and there were red packets or the name of “Aun Pau”, “Hong Pau” or whatever, so long it is money inside the red packets. It was tantamount to wedding gifts from guests or rather “Friends” It was such in a situation, the red packets were able to cover up all wedding expenses and make profits.

News was spread around, it was become popular, it was not restricted to wedding dinners, it had birthday dinners, it had house warming dinners, it had recovered from serious illness dinners and it was many more that a slightest excuse could be made and a dinner invitations were so arranged. It was an industry, “dinners for profits” industry and unfortunately the industry was short life!

News was spreading again; it was not good news for the “dinner’s industry” Most of the time, the “revenue” the red packet, it was not able to cover the dinner along, needless to say other expenses. It  was a total lost. However, the entrepreneurs came up with a smart idea, or at least they thought they had a fantastic money making ideas.  Invitation cards contained a clause; minimum of “wedding gift in monetary form” must be inserted into the red packet, the minimum was indicated say, RM200.00 or RM300.00. The result was “in-super”, none turned out for the dinner!

The “dinners for profits” industry is dead, the customary wedding dinners continuing and prevailing.  It is not as popular as before and they are more “variety”. Wedding dinner of the full event of the traditional,  light ceremony, the tea party, it is a light snacks for entertainment relatives and friends, Buffet or no wedding dinner at all, it is “touring wedding”, after simple wedding ceremony, fly off some nice holiday resorts,  local or overseas for honey moon. There is still having arrangement of various types of dinners but for the true event, a clause is inserted and it is “Bring nothing but your presence” The true friendships and gifts once again, it is prevailing.

Friendship and gifts are never separated, it is true friendship or it is “Business Friendship“.  Every corners of everywhere, signage are there, free gifts of free gifts and free gifts. It is a good business technique and they are never fail. Long queue will be there right from the very earning  morning of the day. Are business transactions successfully concluded?  It is yet to be known, the respond of crowd in queues is definitely super good and never missed.

Visiting friend’s house, a gift in hand is the norm.  It is weird empty handed paying someone a visit.  Does it mean paying a visit to friend’s house empty handed, it is considered as not sincere?  Does it mean sincerity can be bought by way of gifts? It is definitely not for me! Others, they will know better by themselves! As far as I am concerned, a clause as what they have inserted into the invitation cards for attending functions. The “Bring nothing but your presence” it is super to me.

Gifts does it mean awful or evil?  It is contrary to the fact that gifts are serving their purpose, they have their aspects of good value and in many occasions they serve best and explicit the holy soul touching duties. A gift of offering human organs to save lives of the needy and it is only one of the many instances of the tears dropping situation of gifts being in existences.

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Hobbies and Exercises

Early in the morning before day break, the darkness still covered up this part our earth.  My wife and I after sending our children to school, we are in the park for morning jogging. It is our routine exercise as well as many others.

The park someplace nears our house, it is only 10 minutes drive, it occupies more than 100 acre.  The centre of the park, it is a very huge lake, a small manmade island with trekking path and decorated bridges over here and there, around the whole park.  Towers on top of the manmade island and near the lakesides, huts were everywhere with long stools surrounding with big tables in the middle. Children play yards; number of areas housing outdoor health exerciser equipments, football field and many more amenities were constructed all over the park. Trees, bushes, flower plants and others planted all over accept an open area for kites flying activities. It is a good park, a huge park and a love-by-all park for hobbies and exercises, pleasure, leisure and functions.

Jogging path were constructed surrounding the lakeside, there are down slope, up slope, jog over the bridges and across the island. Trekking around the island and down to the main jogging path, thereafter back to the starting point.  It takes about one and the half hour, the speed for my wife and me to complete one big circle of jogging.

Jogging around the park, it is one of our hobbies, it is also one form of exercises to increase or maintain our health, from good to good, it is not possible from good to best judging from our age group.  Strolling around the park, it is one of the hobbies like jogging; it is leisure and enjoying the beauty and morning breeze of the park for the rest of our remaining life.

It is spoiled by those who claim they are exercising for health.  They use their two big palms, swinging their hands attached with their big fleshy palms from back to front.  Banging each other and create a big noise of “Clap” at the meeting point of the front of their two big palms.  Thereafter they swing backwards to their back, their palms strongly bang each other again and another big clapping noise, breaking the silence but filled with birds singing atmosphere.  The worst, they said, it is the book saying, the harder the banging, the louder the clap, the better health will achieved.

Don’t they know the birds are singing? Don’t they know they are others who like quietness early in the morning? Don’t they know their actions become our nightmare?

In a way, it could be scientifically they are actually slowing killing themselves especially towards certain group.  When normal wear and tear, our body cells dies at the normal rate and they are unavoidable as we need to have our normal life. Preservation of energy, it is the latest slogan of medical society; it is to prolong our life span. These group of “health concern know nuts” they banged their palms, they kill their skin cells, muscles cells, nerve cells, blood vain and artery cells, the good soldiers cells of white blood cells, they  kill all precious cells.  It is not all, the dead cells became waste and it increase the jobs for our kidneys, it is so said, the disintegrated dead cells became part of the materials to form clot in our blood vessels and increased risk for stroke, heart attacks and etc.

They are other group, the “health concern know nothing” they swing their hands with full force, thrash out in circles, first by right hand, left hand or left hand and right hand, it does not matter, it is their hands. Their right hands and left hands, numerous of circles.  May be they are tired or may be their theory, after left right, right left then they start both hands, doing the full and power force of circle swinging. They said and they believed, the harder they thrash out, he faster they swing in full force in circle, the better health they would achieve. It is what they said and believe, especially those who are in the above 50 years old bracket and normally they are.  This group of “health concern knows nothing” sooner or later, they are going to dislodge the hands and rest into the lake!

They walk in groups and act like they owned the park, occupying the whole trekking and jogging lane until others have to use sideways. They were times, I had witness, no sideway for others and it caused others to fall or by pass the shallow drains.

They throw as they like, rubbish here and there, it is a master piece of work, not to me, not to you, I believe but it is to them!  They do not throw as what it is; they squeezed the empty drinks can into shape.  They see it “artistic” we see it, simply just another piece of rubbish!

There are lakes, there are fishes and there are anglers around.  The lake, the word it is so used and it is truly a big beautiful lake.  The actual function of the “Lake”, it is a retention pond.  It is to contain flash flood whenever there is heavy rain continuing for a few days with raindrops like a “marbles”. The pond also a collection all “waters” from nearby housing estates and there are more than a hundred housing estates. There are waters from kitchen with all sorts of detergent, water from bath room with all sorts cleaning chemicals, washing clothing and others, drain water and many others.  The worst, there are light industrial areas and shop houses around.  Chemicals’ fluids, discharging from workshops, plastic factory and these are just only a few.

Can we really safe to consume those fish? Short term it may have no impact on our health, how about long term effects?  I wonder?

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The First House I Bought

Human needs, there is a saying; they are four needs we wanted to have.  Namely the clothing, the food, the travelling and the place to house ourselves. The clothing, it is something to cover up ourselves, those like to expose themselves without anything on, they are not within the criterion of “a saying of needing a clothing”

Food to fill our stomach and to satisfy our hunger but there are many gimmick of food!  The greener food, the health food, the toxic food, the tasty food, the junk food, it looks like, you just pick up any description of bad for health “wordings” good for health “wordings", tasteful “wordings" and paste them on the the walls.  They may be more than hundreds of “wordings", it does not matter.  Taking a dart, dashing to the walls with eyes blindfolded.  It will strike a “wordings” and we will find a menu based on that “wordings “ in one of our restaurant near the place we are staying or working!

Vehicles to help us to travel from one place to another, “Vehicle’ this word is scaring, it is not a word that every one of us to be neglected. It is something that the day we are born and they are with us. The ancient days, two rods of wood, one end were the handles, the other end, someone sat on it and it was pulled by others at the end with handle.  Those were the two rods wooden vehicles.  The world we are now, vehicles are beautiful, vehicles are the mighty, vehicles are monsters, vehicles are small and big of all sizes, vehicles are of one wheel or more than one wheel as well as no wheels, you name it we have it.

A place to stay, a house, be it in the cave, it is a house except they are a unlucky bunch, be it under the flyover, a bridge, that is fitted as a place to stay, be it a room in the outer space, the space station, that is only for those who are super rich.

A place to stay, to rent a room, it is easy and considerably comfortable for a single, it is economy too as well as easy to manage.  It does not have to worry to pay electricity bill or any utilities commitments. It is another story for a married couple, a married couple with kid or kids, it is definite a nightmare.  Sharing a same kitchen, whose are whose soy souses missing, whose are whose apples, oranges, grapes and this and that being taken away from the fridge? Sharing a common living room, too many guests among all tenants created noise pollutions. Squabbles over parking spaces, it is a daily music to the ears.

A place to stay, it leaves no choice for married couple but to rent a house.  Problems again for married couple with kids, it is always not welcome by house owners. They may be right so long it is concerned on the question of protection over their property in good conditions. Majority of children, they are good artist, painting on the walls are their expertise and their children rights and must not be abused.

A place to say for married couple with kids, it is a house to own.  An expert, the mathematician expert, telling me to save for three years, it is three years the most he said.  It would be enough to make the down payments of 30% of the purchase price of a brand new house.  The remaining 70% is paid by the bank housing loan, spreading over 25 years of easy monthly installments. He further ensured me that the housing installments would be just like the amount of rentals for renting a house. Should I be willing to own a house away from cities, the housing installment could be less than the amount of rentals. It is really very convincing and tempting.  It excites me and my wife, especially my wife; female is always more vulnerable to a dreams house. It translated into countless of sleepless nights. Sweet-dreaming a dream house not far away, it is only three years or not more than three years.

We were looking, searching and asking, we were busy going the sites the moment we had news of an opening for new house booking, opening for properties sales promotion, whenever there were properties exhibitions we were be there and never fail to have our footsteps imprinted there. Finally we had pin-point an ideal location. We had also checked the price of the house around that area, the type of house we wanted and the price was within our reach; actually, the location and he type of house, it was rather my wife dream house.

Three years passed, our savings, it was enough for the 30% of down payment as suggested by the mathematician. We were very happy as there was an opening for sales which was fall on our dream location.  No time to loose, early in the morning, bringing along all necessary documents and most important, our cheque book and credit cards.

Empty handed we came back, he price of the house went up, it went up to the price that our down payment was not enough.  The location became a premium area and the price of the surrounding houses became sky high and it was dislodge to our earnings.  Choices were not ours and we had to look elsewhere.

A year passed, our second dream area also gone, at last we settled on an area with a potential to become our dream area.  It may needed five to ten years more of future development, yet if we could be lucky enough, but then what can we do. Choices are not with us, we are just the ordinary guys. We are considered lucky as finally we own a house.

Now that we owned a house that yet to be built, it takes two years to have vacant delivery to us. Two years from now, we have to have a good budget. We need furniture, renovation for kitchen, living hall, master bed rooms, other rooms, backyard and front yard/car porch.  We have to have, TV and many other electrical appliances.  We also have to have reserve for our kids’ education.  We may have to have some other reserve for uncertainty or rather the easy terms of saying for the rainy days.

Could someone tell me? Where could we have a life? We work hard and we don’t mind, we work, we carry duties for next generation to continue for human race continuity, we have time to enjoy ourselves, we have time to do what we want. It is not like what we are now, a working mule or a buffalo!  Is it too much to ask? I wonder?

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Days I was in love

I was young, 16 years old going to be 17.  Schooling and older than many girls, I could care my junior schoolmate, but they were not attracted to me.  There was a girl my senior; I was unable let her off my eyesight wherever she went.

I was sitting on the stool at one of the corner of the school front yard under the shade of a giant old tree.  I would be sitting there when the school was over or earlier than the school started classes. There I was to lay my eyesight on her, rain or shine, sick or healthy, teased by others or scolded by whomever, it was never fail.

One day, it must be the D-day.  As usual I was sitting on the same stool after school bell.  She was out from the school front door, step by step onto the steps downward, but she did not step onto the same steps like yesterday or the days before yesterday, stepped toward the school compound. She made a turn, a turn towards my sitting direction.

My heart was pumping, from normal speed to fast and get faster, from light beat to hard and get harder. I could feel my face was flush and warm.  Each step she stepped on, she was not stepping on the floor, she stepped on my fleshy heart. I couldn’t raise my head in order to have the eye to eye contact with her. She walked near and I heard nothing but heart beating and felt my cheeks was warm. Finally I was able to manage to have the words of “I am 5 years your senior and I am engaged” slipped into my ear drums.

I was in the theater to watch a comedy movie but my tears; they went off on the opposite of the story of the movie. Though it was only wet my eyes, it was not my intention to cry. Night was not the time to sleep; day was not the time to work, brain was in my skull, soul was not around. They said it was a symptom of lost love but I was not even begun to have love.

Countless nights were passed; countless days were gone.  Early in the morning, the sun still going up, later in the evening, darkness bravely covered up. I was still around, it did not matter sun was up or down, it did not matter darkness or brightness. Why must I be around?

The memory is back and they are very fresh and very real, it is just like they were happen yesterday.  The unfortunate event of my neighbor’s son brought my memory back from 40 years ago.

The neighbor’s son is a teenage boy, undergraduate student.  He has a girl friend, 2 years his senior; both are in the same college.  The love-ship is strongly opposed by the parents, both girls and boy parents.

The couple, the lovebirds, they fought very hard to gain the recognitions and blessings from their parents. Their determination was very real and firm. They have tried all means and all ways possible to pass the message to both their parents that they loved each other deeply and truthfully. Unfortunately it was not bought by the girl’s parents.  The girl was sent overseas for completing her undergraduate studies in a way of separating them.

The boy was one of the top scorers on examinations or other activities.  His performance went way down after the separation from his love, far below one of the top scorers but maintained a pass.  Such a low performance earned him, scolds from parents, blames of wasting the parents’ monies, blames for losing parents’ reputation and social position was at stake and anything that was not in parents’ favors, it was his fault of not one of the top scorers. Friends were despised him as they did not understand the power of love, they held an idea that man should not lost themselves just because of girls. The boy was attacked psychologically, left and right, back and front, top and bottom, sideway, back way, front way, top way and down way.  It was one nice day; he met a car accident and became coma and resting in hospital bed ever and forever.  Doctor said that the boy has no hope of recovering. Police said the boy was driving restlessly.

The boy must have felt the way I felt when I was experienced 40 years ago, but the ways it goes I was luckier than the boy. History is repeating now and then, non-stop continuing, the sad story, the sad movie, the message is there and it is very real, and no one is really caring.  When unfortunate event occurring, tears are there, but tears have no power to make things right and bring back the precious moments of our life.

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Back to school

This is an annual affairs and it is an affairs being practice by all community throughout our beloved globe, no matter which corner of our globe, the place of worm whether, the place of icy cold, and the place of having half a year of no sunlight. The place of four seasons in a year, the place of no seasoning except whenever there is rain, it is termed as raining season.  There are few days of no rain it is said a dry and hot spell season.

 It is also a phrase used by all languages of the earth living things. There may be writing of different shapes, square type of words, symbolic type of wards and etc. The basic message, it is the same, back to school.

It is easy to identify the “back to school” season, shops and hypermarkets will definitely remind you. The decoration of back to school theme is highly noticeable from far or near.  The sudden surge of patronage for school uniforms, shoes, text books, bags and etc.  It create an atmosphere of a coming festival that is equivalent to the annual  festival like Christmas or new year except items of shopping are not alike. School children are like it because they are going to have new shoes, new bags many new things, and best of all, the pocket money.  Parents are not like it because their pockets being burnt a huge hole.

Back to school, for the schooling children, some of them are very happy to go back to school and actually they can’t wait for the day to come.  One of my friend’s friend and his friend’s friend has a story to tell.  His children like very much to go back to school.  He has two children, one boy and one girl; both of them are high school students. Going to school, they have pocket money, stay at home no money and it is fine, but they have only four walls to look at after bored at TV programs and electronic games playing.

Is there any Parents? They said that they don’t have any; Mother needs to go to women associations for meeting today. Tomorrow, there is function for charity and the day after tomorrow, she required to go along with father for business activities.  Father is not at home for 18 hours minus 6 hours in bed for a 24 hours day system.  The only time they have seen their parents, their parent were in bed snoring.  They said that the best part of it, it is to ask for pocket money or rather to write for it at any amount they requested and never failed. A note requesting pocket money on the table in the evening, the next morning, it becomes stack of money for them. That’s why; they keep on arguing with their friends, parents’ love is money. They consider school is their family and they like “back to school”, home to them; it is an empty house with luxuries.

Parents with more than ten children, schooling children, it is a huge bill for them for the back to school season. The worse of it, it is an annual affair, each and every year there is inescapable one “back to school” season. Pocket is burnt with huge hole, it is not enough for one pocket, and all pockets are no more without a hole in it.

Family with more than ten children, it is not really common to more of us except the Muslim faith families.  They are not allow to have birth control, they are not only not allow to have birth control by medically, naturally birth control is prohibited either if I am not mistaken (I am not a Muslim faith).  Mathematically,  more than ten schooling children, the sole breeder of the family needs at least five figures income per month  and the five figure must be without a decimal point in between of the five digits.

Mathematically, any nation those who has a five figures revenue per month, I truly believe, it won’t be more than 20 per cent.  A nation those who has more than 10 schooling children, I believe, there are more than 50 per cent should there is no birth control by any means in place.  The percentage so taken is based on no birth control by any means mathematically equation and it is as good as plugging figures from the air! It is not referring to Muslim nation; it is referring to any nation who practices no birth control! (It is a belief, no actual statistically to verify!)

Back to school, truly it is a nightmare for those who are having more than ten schooling children and they are not financially sound.

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Feels of Father Day

Years ago I had a father and he was around, though I was not really closed to my father as the way I was closer to my mother.  Among us, we have six brothers and sisters of us and we are all lucky, we are all alive and healthy and best of all we are all around in a city of different corners of the same city, each of us have our own family and having a place being assigned a word for it, as a “house” to line in.

Ultimately, the final day of my father was arrived; it was not suppose to be his final day at that time.  I was strongly believed so.  When I was working as an account executive and having a meeting in the office.  A call from my mother, telling me in sobbing voice that my father was in critical condition, she was told in confidence by the hospital staff nurse that something was amiss.  Without second thought, I borrowed an expensive luxury car from my boss and went straight to the hospital emergency unit even though I was not supposed to drive my car to the entrance of the emergency unit and parked there. The hospital guard tried to get me moved the car but called off by the Doctor in charge of the emergency ward my father was awarded.

I walked in and overheard, the nurse talked and accused the young doctor “Doctor in charge asked you not to carried out the operation on the patience, he is too old and too weak and might not be able to sustain, yet you still did it, now the son drove a big and expensive luxury car and I believe he is able to institute legal case against you and your future will definitely gone” The young doctor unrepentantly said “what do you know about medicine, if I could save him, I will be able to save many others” The nurse raised her voice “Yes, I don’t know, so you keep on taking patience as guinea pigs and kill them, they are human beings!” The Doctor in charge walked in and said with unhappy tone “Please keep the voice down, this is the operation room and the patience next of kin, they are out all there” he turned and faced the young doctor, I won’t lie for you in the court of law”

Those remarks really made my temple flared; it was up to the boiling point.  I was nearly gone inside the operation’s room and gave the young doctor a few punches. My mother was around and she was sobbing, no choice, a good son of my mother, there was no way to add more worries for her right at that moment.  I was and controlled my temple. The young doctor and the nurse walked out, the senior doctor walked away.  The young doctor begged me for forgiveness, then he begged my mother, then he begged me and my mother and me.  The nurse confirmed that he had asked his best friend, the specialist and highly authoritative on such an area of sickness to rescued him and he would bear all costs for the treatment.

My father was truly gone at the wrong time; it should have not his time to go. However there was nothing I could do, taking legal action to the young doctor? Could it bring back my father? A big NO, we or rather I, the eldest and the most expected of my father and mother to take things in my hand, leading all my juniors, setting example for them to have a better life, showing them the way as an responsible traits that one’s should be.

One of those fine day, many times, out from nowhere, out from no reason, out from unexplainable, I was having fears to encounter nightfall, the darkness of long deep nights. Nightmare was there and awakened me very often at middle of the night by the time it should be the sound and deep in sleep with sweet dreams.  Before my father had gone, these fine and uncalled for nights kept me swept and awaked me very frequently.  After my father joined my grandpa in their world, the nights of nightmare were gone; it was started at one nice night.

I was having the nightmare again; I was in the middle of fighting with unwanted elements, they kept on changing their shape, a fierce figure like demon, a scaring deformed creature with blood (No color) all over the fractured head like ghost. I was defeated and run away but my legs were just not moving!  A loud and fierce voice like thunder pounding behind me “Don’t you dare to hurt my son, don’t you creature dare to scare my son, I will destroy all of you in all worlds” I turned looked at my back, it was my deceased father and he chased them away. Thereafter, until now, night by night, it was and it is a sweat dream night. The so called nightmare completely erased from my life and my memories.

Even though, I was not very close to my father, there were pieces of memories, clicking me together with my father. Especially during, before and after the Father Day, those and theses few days, there bound to be unforgettable feels of joys and concerns of the days when I were with my father.  It is undeniable facts that I wish and do sincerely wish and it is the deepest wish of my deepest heart that if I could be with my father, my mother and my all juniors once more time in the rest of my life.  I wonder? Could it be?

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